I recently met Tamika and think that what I saw for MY OWN EYES pretty much set it off. She is insecure and so not the ONE. I feel so so bad that I felt that way. But Usher was so uncomfortable when she was around. It was like she has something on him and he is afraid. I am a HUGE HUGE fan of Usher and am saddened by his decision but support this chapter because it is his life and his journey. I am not a fan of the relationship, but respect his love. I hope that Usher can one day understand what I, as a personal observer, seen in the relationship. INC (still love Usher)