I wonder-how many of you "people" are bastards yourselves? Mind ya business.Monica is doing Monica.Why should she marry to make the "public" more comfortable with her lifestyle? She is obviously fine with her life. You should be fine with her decision, too - especially since it does not affect you. TMOM was a brilliant album, and it was full of class. People go around calling others bitches and ho's and doubting themselves after a breakup all the time. She had the nerve to put it to music, and for that she is being classless? WOW.