This was a tragic accident. Brandy was not under the influence of any drugs - legal or illegal, nor was she on the phone. Brandy apologized for what happened - which was the only thing she could do. She grieved for the lose and for the family ... there is nothing else she could do. She could give this family every penny to her name but it will not bring their loved one back. They need to seek counseling. They are still stuck in the anger stage of grief and they need help getting past this stage. I don't think Brandy did anything wrong by going out to a party.