hey usher i think you should haev waited a while befor marrage, you are a young talented sexy and smart,womenare haveing babies everyday so be careful and usher if it is so that your wife is why you fier mom alwasy remember this if you mother is not feeling your lady then somthing is worng and to me what she say should realy matter to you because i dont think that she is going to tell you anything worng,but GOD bless you and your new family love you always,bhamas