I don't think its right to begrudge someone because they are happy. love just like people change with time and there are all kinds of chalanges in life and in a marriage. I hope they are happy. And as far as his relationship with chili no one can interfere with your man loving you unless he allows them to so don't blame tamika. If he or she were cheating while they were with someone else then they were wrong. But its a good thing none of us live in glass houses huh? Famous people have a right to private lives they probably just felt pressured by his fans to respond to the critisism. In the rest of the world there are plenty of men and women with children entering there second marriage and plenty of men in the music business and acting are married to women they love that are nothing like the people they have in videos or love scenes in movies. Lets let go of ridicuous fantacies and grow up. please