Shhhh don't tell anyone I have been banging this song in my car since the internet leak.. I love it... The Video is fire.. I think Ashanti is not playing she has something to prove.. Irv just needs to support her and stop being mad at her. Stop leaking her projects hoping they will fail.. The bottom line is you were married and she was a young impressionable girl. You can't hold her forever especially with your special way of viewing life and relationships. Stay with Deb and be happy.. Go Ashanti