One more thing. If a couple decides that they want to have sex in a club, that's on them. They are grown. The respect is in each other. The fun is for each other. You ever heard of, "keep it on and poppin'?" One of the main aspects of a great relationship is excitement. Being creative. Stepping out and having a little 'out of the box' fun every now and them. what floats your boat might not float the next person. In all due respect, I can tell you won't keep a man very long, thinking like that.