About a comment that i had made earlier i decided to remain anonymous because i would like to be heard for what i have to say and not to be pre-judge because of who i am. when i made the commit about beauty is not everything, i am not hating on anyone else beauty, why i made that commit is from reading all lot of comments on this blog what others are saying about Ushers wife saying that she is not pretty enough for him are he should had married someone much more attractive, when did just looks count what about the person character what if he had married someone for just looks and in turn he caught pure hell from her, would just looks matter then i do not see anything wrong with the way his wife looks i think she is rather attractive, because she do not look like the way others want her to look does that disqualify her, persoally i am very passionate about the black family if you are black single and free i think that you can date who ever you want you can date outside your race i don"t care if they are yellow green blue that is your business, but my passion is about black married families who are being split asunder, people just do not respect the married vows nor others marriage vows anymore and i feel when especially a young black man stands up and defends his wife before the public for everybody to see and hear i feel that he should be highly commended. i am very very inpressed,i do not make comment just to waste time, when i make a commit i am not about tearing others down i try to encourage them especially if they are doing are saying something positve, if we do not lift up our young black men when they show that they are when they are trying to do the right thing then who will, even if they are celebs are not.