Personally, I think that Usher used the wrong method in which to express himself! It was rather immature! The only people that should be concerned about Usher and Tameka is...Usher and Tameka! Of course we would all like to live in a perfect world, where we all got along, sadly that is not the case! For the record Usher...your skin and Tameka's skin, needs to be a little tougher. You should have elevated yourself to a different level when this bs started from day one! You don't owe anyone an explanation for your decisions in life. Tameka doesn't owe anyone anything, nor should she comment, worry or stress about the very ugly comments made about her. It is simply jealousy! Young sisters are mad cause they figured Tameka not to be your type and compared her with Chili! No one knows Tameka's heart...Usher is not stupid! Tameka represents something to him...and that is really all that matters...The hate needs to stop...suppose Tameka was your sister, daughter or mother...it wouldn't be so cool then, would it???? Take Care and remember words can truly hurt to the core!