The way he did it was disrespectful, not "real". He could have easily kept it at, the media blew it up. And then @ the BET awards he wants to laugh and giggle like a little girl? Yeah let it go! She needs to find a grown ass man. A grown ass man (Jay Z) would keep his personal life personal and I'm hear to tell you, fellaz be trippin just as much as woman, so take that 1 sided BS somewhere else.