wow i didn't know so many people didn't like kanye.. meanwhile I absolutely love this song to death and the video really set it off!! and somebody described what he's sayin perfectly- it's like the back and forth of not knowing what to do in a relationship, and i think it is kind of haunting him; at the end of the video he's crumbled up on the couch holding his head... (and i really think he's talking about a boy! lol) but were the people part of a dream/nightmare he just woke up from??

**and this is just a side comment for all haters talkin' bout ciara's video- she really really showed her ass in that video!! yes, it was visual and yes she danced that ass off once again.. i've loved the majority of her videos but this one just blew all of them out the water.. i don't quite know how it compares to kanye tho--it's just a matter of taste i guess.. both of these videos are the shyt tho, hands down!!