when you really think about kelly Has been giving clues for about 2 years now. listen closely to the lyrics "better without you". she say its about her ex supposedly but that was 5 yrs ago lol and its so obvious that she was talking about her leaving mathew. furthermore the song "No Man No Cry" is just a follow up to the 1st joint. " all of the years that gave..all of the tears that i waste...thnik its time that i moved on wit my life...feels good starting over...U get THE POINT. SHE WAS DROPIN HINTS LEFT AND RIGHT AND WE JUST NOW FIGURING IT OUT!!!!