i disagree with geeman sometimes a male/female can have you so blind by them and it will cost you to loose everything until you realize or find out who the real them are...you dont know what the situation was only thing we can go by is what the media tell us but behind close doors we will never know...so you cant judge him thats not your place you dnt know just like i dont know...but anyway this is a nice song and i am pretty sure everybody everywhere can relate to this song...usher you did your thing on this one