yall need to lay the chris brown and rihanna thing to rest..I mean dang. I didnt want to comment on this ish cause its not relevant to this mary issue here...butt dang.yall act like yall was in the car with them that night..for those of u who commented that ,..that the rihanna domestic issue is different than the mary j blidge issue..yes and no its different. yes its different because, unlike what rihanna want u stans to believe, she did start the physical fight(read the real police report on tmz), that night..she stated she saw another woman texing his phone repeatedly, she confronted him bout it, he deny dealing with the other woman, thats whe she started to hit him on the face repeatedly, with her hands and shoes, thats when he snapped and bit her fingers. than started hitting her on the face and all that crap. those were her words on the police report.. whats why I stated in my earlier comment, you cant expect to put your hands on a man thats bigger than u, stronger than u and expect him to just take a beating. and I'm tired of people using the rihanna and chris brown issue as an domestic violence example..thruth is both of them were physical fighting each other and rihanna lost the fight..and it was wrong for chris to put his hands on her, at the same time rihanna should have kept her hands to herself too. but of course with the mary j blidge thing, shes a woman that mean it was ok for her to slap him.(sarcasm).for those of u wo says u cant see the slap..look hard...and if she didnt him hit y are people pulling them away from each other?...common sense here people.