It's unfortunate because the album is very good. Better than E-MC2, a close act behing Butterfly....that being said, both Mariah and the Def Jam are to blame. If she would stop getting in her own way and just focus on the music and not try to act like she's 19, folks would not be turned off...it's time to grow up....Yet, I understand her frustration with the record company, Obsessed should NOT have been a single and neither should I Wanna Know What Love Is...it's a shame because it's a great CD.