"DONT TAKE SHYT" I DON'T KNOW WHO U R BUT I LUV U. I FULLY AGREE WITH U. THIS IS WHAT I BELIEVE AND I THINK ONCE STATED BEFORE. GRANTED I AM NOT EITHER ONE OF THESE PEOPLE AND AM NOT IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP TO FULLY KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON BETWEEN THEM BUT IF YOU ARE MARRIED, HAVE MONEY, AND OWN NUMEROUS HOMES WITHIN A GENERAL AREA IN NEW YORK AND YOUR HUSBAND STAYS IN ONE RESIDENCE WHILE U STAY IN ANOTHER LESS THAN AN HOUR AWAY AND HE HAS NOT STAYED HOME WITH YOU IN OVER A YEAR, HOW DO YOU CONSIDERED YOURSELF TO BE MARRIED? FROM MY UNDERSTANDING SWIZZ HAD A HOME IN UPSTATE NEW YORK WHERE SHE AND THEIR CHILDREN LIVED AND HE ALSO HAS A HOME IN NYC. IF UR HUSBAND IS NEVER HOME WITH YOU AND ALWAYS AT HIS OTHER RESIDENCE FOR OVER A YEAR IS THAT NOT LITERALLY A SEPARATION? I UNDERSTAND TAKING VOWS. I GET THAT AND I RESPECT THAT BUT I ALSO UNDERSTAND THAT PEOPLE CHANGE AND RELATIONSHIPS CHANGE. SO IF SWIZZ FELT IT BEST TO SEPARATE HIMSELF FROM HER BEFORE HE FULLY UNDERSTOOD IF HE WANTED TO BE MARRIED TO HER ANYMORE, I RESPECT THAT TOO. AS FOR ALICIA, PEOPLE WHO ARE MARRIED ON PAPER BUT NOT MARRIED TO THEIR SPOUSE IN THEIR HEART AND ARE SEPARATED FROM THEIR SPOUSE CAN DATE OTHER PEOPLE. SOMETIMES IT TAKES A PERSON TO SEE WHATS OUT THERE TO REALIZE THAT THEY VALUE THEIR MARRIAGE MORE AND DONT WANT TO BE SEPARATED ANYMORE AND SOMETIMES LIKE WITH SWIZZ YOU REALIZE YOU WANT TO MOVE ON. IF SWIZZ IS TELLING ALICIA THAT HE'S SEPARATED AND WANTS A DIVORCE FROM HIS WIFE BEFORE HE DATES HER THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? THEY ARE BOTH ADULTS. IT WOULD BE DIFFERENT IF HE'S TELLING ALICIA HE'S SEPARATED FROM HIS WIFE AND TELLING MASHONDA THAT HE WANTS TO GET BACK TOGETHER AND BE A FAMILY AGAIN. THEN SWIZZ WOULD BE AN ASSHOLE AND WOULD BE PLAYING THE BOTH OF THEM. MASHONDA SHOULD SERIOUSLY MOVE ON. I THINK SHE FEELS THEARTENED BY WHO HE'S DATING AND NOT THAT HE'S DATING. IF ALICIA WAS JUST A REGULAR FEMALE WORKING AN ORDINARY JOB I THINK MASHONDA WOULD THINK THAT IT WAS NO BIG DEAL AND HE WOULD COME BACK BUT SINCE IT'S ALICIA KEYS AND SHE'S FAMOUS THEN MAYBE SWIZZ REALLY DOESN'T WANT HER ANYMORE. I DONT' KNOW . MAYBE. ASK THEM TO BE SURE. LOL