Lauryn Hill is a perfect example of a woman who allowed a man to bring her all the way down, and even question her on sanity; and she has yet to start the recovery process. He pumped her full of kids, which she probably felt (like most women) would make him stay, and she lost herself in the process. The first thing Lauryn needs to do is get over this man, focus on raising her kids, being a great mother, and doing what makes her happy and if that includes performing music again so be it. Some women, no matter how powerful or how much money they have, allow these men to just control them. Lauryn being a perfect example!