The dream of every mans heart who loves children is to have a son to carry on his name. No one is perfect , I really don't see the sense in divorcing the love of your life that you have been with for 29 years because he fell along the way and end up with a child. Psychologically there could be a number of factors that cause him to cheat. He works long hours and so does Tina. What a woman needs to understand is that even if the man works long hours he still have urges and if he is not being satisfied at home, he will get it some where else. It's pointless to blame one person entirely for the problem until you have heard the story from both parties, (Tina and Mathew). I must say it is a hard thing to deal with for the entire family however, the wows they both took 29 years ago was "for better or worst". Jesus left an example for us, that we should forgive 70 x 7 per day, wow! 140 times in 1 day. I am sure we can all look at ourselves and see our own faults, shortcomings and mistakes and would really like someone to forgive us if our skeleton came out of the closet. I am not endorsing Mathew's wrong doings, we cannot turn back the clock a child is born, we just have to forgive Him for his infidelity.