This is really sad to hear. Marriage is a commitment between 1 man and 1 woman the bible declares. If you place no bounderies in your marriage then there is no love and no faithfulness. The bible says let every man have his own wife (singular) form. When you sleep around every where even though you may get up and leave that person spiritually you take a part of that person with you. Your souls tie that's why God's design is to be with that one in a commitment in marriage. If he really loves her he won't have a desire for another woman. Monique stop living in fear shut that door and demand real commitment.