Has anyone on here ever read the bible? How many different types of marriages were described in the bible? How many of God's most powerful messengers were in monogamous marriages in the bible? How many people do you know who have not experienced some sort of infidelity in a long term relationship (5 years or more)? I think it is very sad that we favor people lying and sneaking behind each other's backs instead of being willing to have honest and upfront relationships with the people we love. It is the love. Monique and Sydney are willing to have real open and honest dialogue with eachother about topics that plague most relationships (not just black ones). Your grandparents generation experienced infidelity. Your great...great grandparents generation experienced infidelity. They stayed together because financially they did not have the options that we do now!!!! God made people diverse...so why wouldn't relationships be that way? I applaud Monique for having the guts to have the conversation that most of you won't. Let's stop the lying to one other people. Begin a different conversation!