HELLO! God created the marriage arrangement to be between 1 man & 1 woman not a whole nation of woman/or man with many others. This is America but we belong to God. He created us all & set the standards of how we are to live. No doubt in this selfish world its all about "whats best for me" "what makes me happy" when in all seriousness, we are merely dust that became in existence from God. His son Jesus left rules, princples for us to go by. Monqiue I think you are a very attractive woman & Sidney is also handsome but get it together. The bible states clearly the way a husband should treat his wife & how a wife should have deep respect among other things towards her husband.