In reply to DarKo.

You must be talking about the one and only example you had growing up!( YOUR MOTHER) What pretty exotic black woman did you aspire to have but would not have you ? You sound like a bitter ,angry, frustrated mad black man. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you can be beautiful outside and ugly on the inside. Black men have the idea that a light skinned long hair sista is the perfect woman for them just look at all the videos on tv.