you know after listening to his video . although he was married for years and have children. this man swizz beats is very upset with the marriage not the children . what he means by the word equal: Two people have to be busy with their careers and have something in common besides the same ol same ol. it will get boring. so this letter to his ex wife mashonda get off of the blog talking about your soon to be ex husband. you need to take care of those children . He an alicia love each other and now you are the past. just take it like a woman and stop crying all your business on the blog. AND GOING AFTER THE OTHER WOMAN. this man will take care of his children , he just does not want you. and you are sounding like a angry old woman it is not good for you or your children. now stop it and get off the blog with negative feedback. you will not meet your future man for your self with this behavior.