mashonda get off of the blog talking about your soon to be ex husband. take care of those children you two had with him. if he an alicia love each other and you are the past. just take it like a women and stop crying all your business on the blog. this man will take care of his children , he just does not want you. and you are sounding like a angry old woman it is not good for you or your children. now stop it and get off the blog with negative feedback. you will not meet your future man for your self with this behavior.