Her walls are too high to climb, the only one that can climb that high is God. I mean we are all looking for the special person, are we going to get everything in a person that we seek, the answer is no, therefore, you accepts that we all have flaws. Chili don't think she has flaws, she does, she is stuck up, self centered, and always looking for the bad in everything or everyone, she needs to stop looking and work on herself, she has some major issues. One thing Chili, the man you seek is right before and he is not all that "fine" as you want, you're just selfish and self-centered and that is why you're still alone and will continue to be alone. GOOD LUCK, YOU WILL NEED IT.