if gold digging is not what this is about then they need to make the message a little clearer. I'm disgusted really. I myself am an independent women and I dont expect a man to pay for what i'm responsible for but if he does i'm appreciative and if hes gentlemen enough to go beyond that then I am even more grateful. But this dosen't sound like that this sounds like a gold diggers anthem. Its a bad message for young women and dosen't reflect a grown women's lifestyle.