since when does being a good parent mean not teaching them responsibility? Just because someone is your child does not mean they are blameless in situations. Mrs. Norwood continuously blames everyone else (including her own daughter by the looks of their reality show) for the behavior of her 29 year old son (YEP 29!). Some others here keep saying that Ray J is a young man trying to grow up but at 29 he shouldn't have the mentality of a teenager and he is more than grown up enough to not be a jerk to people. At his age his time to grow up is over and he should try becoming a man. The reason so many adults in the world still act like petulant children even though they are over 21 is because their parents have made excuses for them and they don't know how to take reponsibility for themselves and their actions, which is not what parenting is.