@phatmat44 I hope you are feeling better! A song that really helped me get over my ex is 'Letters' by Kelly Erez - you can hear an acoustic version on YouTube, I think this might be her first single but you download the full version through her Online with Andrea radio show she did recently. She sings about letting go of the physical things associated with a past relationship and how this helped her to move on 'getting rid of all your letters...' I still listen to it and it helps me keep strong :-)