@ phatmat44

I am sorry u feel that way but it will pass - but why would u say it is killing u that the beast is with someone else? The guy is full of shit so u should not be in love with someone like that anyways. Go clean ureself up (revamp wardrobe, eating healthy for cute body and clear skin) and enjoy ure new found freedom and please be open to date all races as us women like to hole punch ourselves into one single culture, when there is a wide variety of brothers out there who will treat u like a QUEEN!! Try to find things to occupy ure time and stop dwelling on the dickhead - Ps don't listen to any info about him from anyone as that will not do u any good and if u see his ass on the street please give him the ultimate BLANK!! that means if a car suddenly crushes him in front of u - my dear girlfriend u just walk right pass cos u did not hear or see anything!! I mean come on irrelevant people should remain non existant and irrelevant. We all have choices at the end of the day and sometimes two people decide to be together and then maybe later one person may decide they want out so this is ok cos it could have been the other way round and it could have been u who walked away so in as much as u don't like it u need to understand the concept of us humanbeings cos we can be fickle sometimes. Jill Scott , Jasmine Sullivan.