i guess every female single is entitled to have one at least one trashy song in their career. some may be more trashy than others but still trashy nonetheless. For ciara it was ride, for rihanna i'll say it was rude boy, for christina it was obviously dirrty, britney probably had a few...But now you guys might be reading this comment and thinking that none of these songs go as far as Keri's 'the way you love me' so i'm going to say, congratulations Keri for pushing the envelope and saying exactly what you want to say, instead of using obvious metaphores. Keri is real!!!