Chilli's show is so refreshing; more young women today need to listen to her advice. She is beautiful, physically fit, down-to-earth and sweet, and she knows she doesn't have to tolerate emotionally immature, shady, self-centered, thoughtless, clueless, insensitive men. The guys selected for her were all wrong, though; she needs an older man (45+) in a stable career who has enough life experience to somewhat understand women. She should go ahead and have a baby regardless of her relationship status since she really wants another kid; nothing wrong with heading to a sperm bank.