Her husband is a fat gay sleaze who is not into her. He is insecure and holding her back bc she is much more beautiful and can easily get another man. He plays mind games bc he is fat and knows he is lucky to have her. She should have never married him and pursued her career. He is a obese greasy monkey on her back. If he really wanted, he could have signed her years ago or hooked it up. Tamar, RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!