I like Tamar and I think she is right most of the time. People just have a hard time accepting the truth and thats why Towanda responded how she did. You see all through the episodes Towanda hasn't cussed nobody out, hasn't cried, argued or anything but as soon as Tamar spoke up and told her the truth that she already knew, she couldn't accept it. I think deep down Towanda likes that sorry asshole