I think that that was definitely an aspect of the video, but I don't think she included the objectification and the mistreatment of her character in the video to send a positive message to people about those types of relationship's. I thought that the video was about a relationship that was exciting and fun, but turned sour... so sour that she had to get out (and she did). Based on that alone it seems that her goal was not to glamorize the relationship she was in, but instead to show that once it gets ugly, you need to get out. Another thing, (and this is just my interpretation of it, i'm sure it can be interpreted in a number of different ways) the imagery of the projector playing videos on the wall were also a sign that she wasn't glamorizing the relationship/objectification/etc. They started off as clouds, flowers, etc, very peaceful beautiful imagery, but turned into collapsing buildings and burning houses when the relationship got ugly. I have to disagree with them on this.