Listen, People try to act flawless, in his music he exposes his mind to the world. He makes really relatable and true AUTHENTIC music, whether you like it or not. No matter where you come from we've all had experiences that make us question ourselves, and you have to keep telling yourself you're good enough, but you are human and your rational side makes you take another look at and question yourself. and He's right, you really do stare at (analyze and critique) yourself and you do see things (learn things about yourself). That's what his music is! Him figuring out who he is and it's beautiful that he's talented enough to poetically and enjoyabley share that to the world through his music. He's not confused with whether he's soft or hard, he has a consciense and sees the deeper meaning of things and talks about them out loud, maybe thats soft or maybe that's just being real with yourself, but still has the ability to kill and murder songs and be added to songs that aren't his and blow every other rapper's chance of glory for that track offt the map - and when he talks about that with confidence ppl think he's tryna be "hard", he's not tryna be. once again he's just spitting how he's seeing things. He didnt come from the hood, so why should his raps reflect that? that'd be fake - he should rap about what's real to him and makes him great and unique among all other rappers. It's clear that he's seen a divorce and it affected him, and now due to that he seeks love and tries to find it, but everything he's ever seen has shown him that it's unreal.That's why he's always analyzing women and his connections with them. The point : When you experience things, it leaves its traces with you and those things that make you who u are deep in your soul is what should be spilling from you when you create art. that's artistic expression and that's what drakes doing perfectly. he's bridging the gap between rapping and rhyming, and melodies and singing, making a brand new innovative style of music. I'll admit that technically he's not the best singer, obviously, but the melody and the sound of his voice resonate and hit so deep with some people. people who say they're "hard" and lack sensitivity are just hiding something, we all have our doubts, our struggles, and those times where we second guess, and then we have to be honest and admit where and when we messed up, we gotta be real with ourselves. That's what I pick up from drake's music