Independent Thinker - The sad thing is, she says noone tells her what to do, but obviously something or someone has changed her! On the X Factor UK she promoted SEX again and she is trying too hard to be someone she is cleatly not. I think Kelly loves God, but is not MATURE, she has a cultural Christian viewpoint vs a Kingdom mindset. Cultural Christianity says my actions do not affect others, its selfish in nature, and it leaves you open for various belief systems that are distinctly contrary to Christ. This is why you see so many people who claim to have grown up in the Church, acting as if what they do and say have no consequence to GOD. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom and the straight and narrow path is what most do not want to follow. Unfortunately, it is quite dangerous to be in a backslidden state when you die or Christ returns. We do need to pray for Kelly Rowland. First pray for her to really trust God to make her who He called her to be. Secondly, pray that she have the courage to obey all that He says. Third, pray that her measurement of success is not based on a temporal worldly perspective, but on an eternal one. Finally, pray that she gets a support circle that is able to hold her accountable toward spiritual maturity.