I don't think I've read where anyone blames Ray J for anything. I mean when I see pictures of them together they both look like they were high but at the same time both are full grown and responsible for their actions. That is the same for Bobby Brown. Whitney was always 6 to 7 years older than him and there is no way she did not know he was doing drugs while they were courting. No one gets married without dating and moving in together first so I never blamed him for turning her on drugs, just likely the type of drugs he was doing (crack) was likely different than what Whitney was doing (cocain) but there is no proof of that other than the interviews. I don't think Bobby or Ray J were good influences on her but obviously they were in her life for a reason only she knows.