I'm excited about it. Pray it ends well. You can't force people apart they have to make their own decisions. You tell someone they can't have what they want and they want it even more. Let them make their own decisions. The statement "once an abuser always an abuser is NOT a fact". Even if it happens that way most of the time people always have a choice to do better. Give the man a break. Lord knows you'll need plenty breaks in your lifetime.