I really feel that if we are true fans of these ladies, we ought to respect them. We spend so much time fighting with each other and comparing and contrasting that we forget that it is now 14 years later. These ladies have grown to be positive women with responsibile traits that speaks for themselves. They are now friends and share a bond now that we should respect for their name's sake. We lose focus on the big picture and hinder these women from their own potential because we don't support them like we should. Why fuss and go on bickering about who is better when these women really want to make real music? Their lives and well being depend on us buying the albums and supporting shows. How can they have any level of success if the foundation of their stability is weak and in constant battle. Let's all grow up and be the support system that they need. You can't get Platinum if we stay in the corner and don't shine. I love both Monica and Brandy and I love that they are really trying to stay in the game. We can learn so much from them if we stop being a victim of our own time. Monica & Brandy Rocks!!!!!!! No other compares like them. #theypavedtheway