I was in a severe abusive relationship. I haven't told many people until now, people speak for us like it happened to them. So why should we have to correct it for nosy people. Everyone is different, we react different. Some of us don't want to waste anyone's time with horror stories. One way to help us heal is to stay off our case about it. Anyway what don't kill us makes us stronger. What goes around comes around. Nobody is perfect. Thanks!