@Grammy :

i don't know what to say , but i just can't "swallow" the whole nannies thing. the first 4 years are the most important in every kid's life.

and maybe the memory won't help , but it is something about the emotions , to me , any mother should have her kids at #1 " if she's financially capable of taking a 2 year off vacation to do her main job".

your mom managed to have a balanced life , more power to her , but there are a lot of women who fall flat in achieving that. your mom did a great job in making that bond between you and her. other women can't do that. especially the celeb females.
and lots of the type of women i talk about leave their children with nannies for a long time , more than 2 years , your mom was good enough to raise you after those 2 years , some kids don't have that type of a good mom you have , they are not lucky enough and live the rest of their childhood with nannies , and trust , it sucks. here ppl either dumb and rich or poor and suffering. i had a lot of friends who were raised by nannies , and let me tell you , no bond or whatsoever were created :( , cuz their mom was all about ONLY herself and fulfilling some unnecessary shit while being rick , man , some bitches in here are swimming in $$$ and leave their kids for nannies , what type of women is that ?!

of course if the mother can't afford taking the vacation she can still work. that what i meant by "exceptions" above. but if you are rich " better a celeb" , why leaving your kids for nannies ?!! just why ?! cuz you want to fulfill your ego and do " movies , music videos , photoshoots " ?!! sorry , this will come off as "arrogant and selfish".
you get my point ?! if you are rich and a celeb and you are to be a mom in the future , don't leave your kids for nannies. you are now a mother , that;s should be your #1 priority in life.
normal ppl like US can have other options ......... :)

@KING :

OKAY :) !! deal ;)
yes , i swear i can be kind and cool. there are some ppl in here who saw that part of me , but usually i'm a messy dick and i tend to cause troubles ......

@whut is not that nice as me #warning. that bitch is more of a beyonce hater than an actual rihanna fan. and my dick think @whut = @ratedXXX !! ;) ;)