Well the issue pretty much lies when you start mud slinging her aesthetical traits that she shares in common with many other people of african descent (in this case being her afro-textured hair). How about you and him both think calmly to yourselves, "Hm... what exactly IS a 'mess' about her afro textured hair?" and I realize you weren't the person that called her hair a mess as it pertained to this photo.. But this could also be applied to britney.. What exactly is a mess about britney's hair and the way god made her? Oh right she's not a natural blonde, chemically processes her hair and as a result it looks thinner and less healthy. So perhaps you not liking her hair is warranted.. Because it doesn't look the healthiest. But what looks unhealthy about solange's hair? Healthy hair is beautiful hair point blank period at the end of the day. You can have your own opinion about it and that's fine but I refuse to subscribe to the idea that solange's natural hair is ugly or that afro-textured hair is inferior. And that's another thing, just because someone's hair isn't personally your preference, that doesn't make it a 'mess'. I see society still has leaps and bounds to go, smh