Believe it or not, "black Friday" came out in 2011, not 2010. It just seems like a century since then. And this guy is talking about her like his little 1950's housewife who does whatever the hell he says. How the hell is he gonna "have her" make him sandwiches?! This is why I've never been able to think of lil' Kim as what her team wanted her to be seen as. She was supposed to some kind of post-feminist figure who switched the table on men when it came to sex in the same way that Madonna did - meaning that she had lyrics about having sex for a woman's own pleasure and not to please a man. But for me she never had the character to truly play out this persona. She has always been used and abused emotionally and sometimes physically by men in her life and has never truly been about her own self-respect. She is not a post-modern feminist as was portrayed but in fact an old-fashioned "stand by your man" type of gal beneath the surface. And she is a tragic and sympathetic figure for this no doubt. It wasn't until she came so viciously for nicki minaj that my sympathy for her turned to annoyance then disgust and then it became straight up hilarious after she made herself look so pathetic. For me she is never going to move past that moment she portrayed nicki minaj being brutally murdered and beheaded with blood and all on the cover of her black Friday mixtape. That was beyond pathetic and truly irresponsible. She doesn't even care what sort of message that sends out! Obviously she didn't learn anything from Biggie's death! Aside from the distasteful imagery there's the content of the mixtape that proved she can't even rap anymore! Listening to it you wouldn't even guess that was the same woman who rapped on "the Naked Truth", "La Bella Mafia" and "Hardcore."