In reply to Gary C.

I do not talk about religion, but I grew up in church (an Apostolic church to be exact). I stopped going at the age of 14 for my own reasons....and I cannot understand for the life of me why black gay guys love church so much. They give sooooo much of their time (choirs, ushering and so forth) to an organization that clearly cares nothing about them. What are old school Christian values anyway? I was taught that the word never changes. I no longer live by the bible, but if I did, I couldn't pick & choose just to make it fit my lifestyle.