an insult is an insult no one is exempt from them... she's right there's more important things out there than worrying about someone being insulted, a white person can call me a nigger all they want, i wouldn't like it but i'm not about to start a rally over it you give people power over you when you let a word get you so bent out of shape YOU CAN'T CHANGE PEOPLES FEELINGS, EVEN IF THEY DON'T CALL YOU OUT OF YOUR NAME THAT DOESN'T CHANGE WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT YOU... PEOPLE WILL ONLY GET TO YOU IF YOU LET THEM POINT BLANK PERIOD