There seems to be a growing trend amongst straight and 'supposedly' straight celebs *side-eye* lately claiming support for out and open gay people, while condemning everyone who doesn't choose to be out and loud with their business. There is a big difference between someone who is private about their sexuality and someone who selfishly sleeps with and lies to the opposite sex while cheating with the same sex. This recent trend of attempting to Cattle-Prod people Out The Closet seems to miss this fact.

What I'm finding especially ignorant is that hate crimes still happen; in certain cultures gay people are still executed yet a media that 5 minutes ago was slating and condemning homosexuality as sissy boy sin is now attempting to use Hiphop as a means to bully and force the more Masculine BLACK URBAN demographic (let's not pretend otherwise) out of the closet with the bare-faced lie that the LANDSCAPE is different and it's suddenly ALL LOVE in the hood. I'm sorry but there is a world of difference between someone who is so flaming they couldn't hide it if they tried and thus the world accepting what's in front of them and someone with a less obvious demeanor who may well lose friends, family and the support of their community for being open about it. I think it is better to be out but people should be allowed to be out on their own terms and not targeted by a witch hunt media that has no interest in protecting you once it has exposed you.