You say no, a child says yes. You discipline them and then they hide things or become rebellious. Or you say no, they say ok and later do what they want to do behind your back. Or you say no, they say no however become a shell and then later in life become someone they are not, or live to please others with no mind of their own or become judgmental of others etc... Will and Jada have publicly said they want their children to be themselves and express in their own way. This doesn't mean they are saying, here's a pass you can fuck who you want. I'm sure they are raising their children with the best interest of them in mind.