So is this what females start doing when all other attempts they've had at releasing music have failed?! Airing out dirty laundry in hopes of free publicity and pity sales? Contrary to popular belief, it's never always the man's fault. A lot of females can be needy, ego-maniacal, manipulative, insecure, and straight up dramatic. You will end up like Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Madonna, Brandy, Rihanna, Ciara, Kelly Rowland etc. where you think you need a man or you think the man needs you. Just let your music speak for itself Ashanti. I am very sure you have left your own share of emotional scars on Nelly as well.