Toni did the show to help her sisters and that includes the soon to be 37 years old child,Tamar! Why the hell does Tamar keep saying that Toni is "almost 11 years older than" her? She either skipped elementary school math or she's purposely making it seem like Toni is much older than her. Tamar was born in March 1977, while Toni was born in October 1967 making Toni 9 years and 5 months older. I've heard her say this 3 diff times. When they were on Bethenny show, Trina said Toni was almost 10 years older than Tamar, and Tamar jumped in and said "11 years".