I will say this, no shade. I don't know anything she does. She is very pretty. If it were not for Iggy popping up on my Sirus, I wouldn't even know how her voice sounds, but back to the point: do you know why Janet (I don't even want to go there), Madonna (being called old, stale, washed up, & constantly being assaulted by Monsters), Adele (weight), Mariah (even with the 400 comment drags, 56,000,000 hate articles & 58k first week sales), and others don't address their haters, it's because it DOESN'T PHASE THEM! They know they have nothing to prove, but we obviously can't say the same for Rita. Good luck tho hun, it seems like you need it.