I guess @musichead.... if a song about abortion is not grown man enough for you, I'm not sure what is. How in the hell is he like a teen hearthrob? What is he supposed to wear? Anyway, this is an awfully powerful song with quite a taboo subject. Props to the writers (possibly james himself). The song definitely took me on a journey and this isn't even a situation I've ever had to go through, I definitely felt thr angst though. Hats off; )