He took her FOR GRANTED, no doubt. But him using his mass persona to express himself/his situation towards the person he has been in love with for two decades, isn't such a far fetched thing. The best music is the music that is directly derived from ones life because art imitates life. I would rather listen to a man professing his love to the lover he took advantage of than someone talking about hoez being loyal, that they're a bad bish or how much they wanna turn up/get high&drunk or some other idiotic unrelated/stupid topic that most mainstream is about TODAY. The man effed up ROYALLY, and is expressing his regret through his art like most PAINTERS, REAL MUSCIANS, WRITERS and GREAT ARTISTS THROUGHOUT history have done. Give him a break and let him do him- with his marriage and his art.