Brit, Don't "ever" listen to those who don't have dreams. Anyone that has a dream understands your plight. A person that don't want more; a person that don't have children; a person that has hater blood-some ppl it's just in their blood; a person who tears down a sista that's trying; is one to stay clear from. As my pastor says, if you wanna fly high hang with the Eagles; chickens don't fly? Soar high baby!!! Luv u ? Aunt Rachel