I'm so confused with these two! When did it get so serious? When there first was a rift between them, I sided with Kandi! Phaedra seemed needy and wanted Kandi to give her all this support during the breakdown of her marriage, but she didn't seem concerned about Kandi's issues in her day to day life! That friendship seemed lop-sided to me! Fast forward to this season and Mama Joyce is doing the most! Someone that doesn't check their mom when it comes to all that shade must condone it! I guess I'm in the middle now, I like both ladies for different reasons! It just seems like this conflict between them is quite intense now and it's escalating for some strange reason that isn't easy to pinpoint!