In reply to Caleb.

@Caleb who would be jealous of some desperado transgender person? No straight person would be jealous and I would bet that gay men would have the self-respect and self-esteem to know that who they select to sleep with is a person that is truly into them for who they are (ie no tricking involved). I respect all of the transgender people that are open about being transgender. It is the DL transgender men that set themselves up in dangerous situations, live a life of desperation, and are the ones that are truly sad (if you have to trick a man into thinking you are a woman to f|uck you what does that say about your self-esteem or morality? Sooner or later he will find out and what kind of relationship could possibly evolve from a sea of lies?) I live in NYC and I see more fine gay men coupled in relationships than I do transgenders. I see transgenders on the prost|tut|on streets searching for anyone with extra change. S|ex is not that important. Relationships are more important, especially those were two people make a commitment and regular s|ex is just a part of a healthy relationship. My old hair dresser was transgender and he is out with being transgender and has been married well over 10 years. It is these DL transgenders that are the problem. Perhaps if they were out many of these problems they complain about would be resolved!