From the very first episode of Tamar & Vince, I said to Tamar through the tv screen, HE CHEATING ON YOU GIRL!!! He has always talked to her like she was beneath him and not his equal. Always addressed her like she was his child instead of spouse. The interviews they did between the show was an act. Vince stayed cold faced the entire time. Marriage is not supposed to hurt. Love is not supposed to hurt. If you disagree with me it's because you're in denial and is stuck yourself and you need to get out anyway possible,b4 it becomes worse. Stop doing it for the kids sake. All you're doing is raising your kids to accept this abuse, verbally, mentally,emotionally, and physically. CHOOSE YOU!!!