When a women is fed up there is nothing you can do, say or buy that will make her stay. Tamar is right. We were all on the outside looking in. Only her, him and God know what happened. No one has the right to judge her. Let's give her our blessing and pray for her and her family. Remember, there is a child involved. He is the one that needs our love and understanding. I still love you Tamar and I understand.